Luis, while wargaming is one aspect that creates a bond amongst us, I believe it is the social bonds that are stronger and more important. And with that in mind, no apologies from you my friend, as your contributions to the fellowship are as valuable as any others.
I also support HH's The Few Good Men, where Friendships Get Made. You need search no farther than that for a slogan that encapsulates our Gentlemen's Club.
Which brings me to the idea of letting women in. First off, those with a sincere interest in wargaming & military history, are far and few between. I think we need not worry about incorporating the women, until such a time as it presents itself. I have seen women with no interest in military history on another military oriented site, the end result was less than desired. It appears their interests were in the abundant male audience, with little female competition, and not the subject of the site. This brought about such threads as what does a man want from a woman, and the like. I would be disappointed to see FGM devolve to that.